Wednesday, June 17, 2020
Pray Your Way To Peace
Trust Or Worry
A Word About The WORD
Thursday, June 11, 2020
Secrets To Satisfying Relationships Part 1
SECRETS OF SATISFYING Relationships
Relationships are the true Treasures of this life. When we leave this old Earth, we will take nothing with us that we accumulated, by way of possessions. What we will have, hopefully is Treasured Memories of Rich relationships. I have never known anyone on their Deathbed who wished they had acquired more stuff, I have known many who wishes they had developed better relationships.
Lets explore 6 areas suggested by Dr. Sam Hoyte and grow some soul sustaining relationships
Philippians 2:2, Ephesians 4:3
Philippians 2:2 “.Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind. Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.
Philippians 2:2-3 KJV
Ephesians 4:3 “Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
Ephesians 4:3 KJV
SIX SECRETS OF A SATISFYING Relationships
INGREDIENT #1: COMMUNICATION
Communication is the lifeline of marriage. When communication breaks down, the marriage breaks down.
Proverbs 18:21 “.Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.
Proverbs 18:21 KJV
The major reason you have communication problems is you expect your mate to think like you do.
It is not the ability to communicate that is lost when a marriage grows apart. It is the desire to communicate that undergoes change. When one or the other no longer wants to be understood or to be understanding, distance will develop.
INGREDIENT #2: CONSIDERATION
Ephesians 5:33 “Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Ephesians 5:33 KJV
1 Peter 3:7 “ Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
1 Peter 3:7 KJV
James 3:17 “But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be entreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.
James 3:17 KJV
…considerate…”
A kind person acts in benevolent, gentle, and loving ways. In marriage, kindness is demonstrated through generous acts, considerate behavior, and comforting words. A kind person usually has a mild and pleasant disposition and acts with tenderness and concern for others. A man who brings his wife flowers as a sign of his love and a woman who strokes her husband’s arm as they watch a movie are acting with kindness.
When I’m being considerate, I’m being wise. The corollary is when I’m being inconsiderate, I’m being stupid.
Saturday, June 6, 2020
Thanksgiving and the hereafter. 1 cor. 15:57-58
But Thanks be to God … Life is not Finished
Do you ever think … “I’m finished! I’m through I hate tomato & squash pie!”
Consider Alexander who spent time in the Russian Gulag.
In "The Prison Chronicle" he says, as few of us can, "Don't be afraid of misfortune and do not yearn after happiness. It is, after all, all the same. The bitter doesn't last forever, and the sweet never fills the cup to overflowing. It is enough if you don't freeze in the cold, and if hunger and thirst don't claw at your sides. If your back isn't broken, if your feet can walk, if both arms work, if both eyes can see, and if both ears can hear, then whom should you envy? And why? Our envy of others devours us most of all. Rub your eyes and purify your heart and prize above all else in the world those who love you and wish you well." (Illustration from AutoIllustrator at biblestudytools.net)
ILL. One pastor said, "Problems are a part of life. All of us are going to have problems right up to the moment we die. And some of you are going to have problems after you die."
We should all agree … and as true as it is … we need to remember … this life isn’t the finish line! The victory celebration is yet to come!
1 Corinthians 15:51-54 51Behold, I show you a mystery; We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, 52In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump: for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed. 53For this corruptible must put on incorruption, and this mortal must put on immortality. 54So when this corruptible shall have put on incorruption, and this mortal shall have put on immortality, then shall be brought to pass the saying that is written, Death is swallowed up in victory.
There is an inheritance of change coming!
From Corruption … to Incorruption
Decay & perishable … to unending existence.
From Mortal … to Immortal
Liable to die … to becoming deathless
John 17:4 "4I have glorified thee on the earth: I have finished the work which thou gavest me to do."
John 19:30 30When Jesus therefore had received the vinegar, he said, It is finished: and he bowed his head, and gave up the ghost.
Because Jesus finished the work of our salvation … that means we are not finished in this life!
Philippians 3:20-21 20For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: 21Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
But thanks be to God … life is not finished!
There are times, we must admit that life takes on the appearance of being futile, foolish and finished.
"Pride slays Thanksgiving, but a humble mind is the soil out of which thanks naturally grow. - A proud man is seldom a grateful man, for he never thinks he gets as much as he deserves." (Henry Ward Beecher)
The truth is … we are getting more than we deserve! Let thanks become a forethought in all facets of your life … for it is not futile, foolish or finished!
1 Corinthians 15:57 57But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
58Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord.
Amen!
Thanks Be To God. Rom 6:17
Saying thanks should not be an after thought, but a forethought.
ILL. The young man was feeling very proud of himself. As a brand-new college graduate he had taken the C.P.A. Exams & passed with flying colors. Now he was a full-fledged Certified Public Accountant.
His father had been an immigrant to the U.S., & now owned his own little business. Filled with self-importance, the young man began to criticize his father’s way of keeping books. He said, “Dad, you don’t even know how much profit you’ve made. Over here in this drawer are your accounts receivable. Over there are your receipts, & you keep all your money in the cash register. You don’t have any idea how much you’ve made.”
The father answered, “Son, when I came to this country the only thing I owned was a pair of pants. Now, your brother is a doctor, your sister is an art teacher, & you are a C.P.A. Your mother & I own our home. We have a car, & we own this little business. Now add that up, subtract the pants, & all the rest is profit.”
The apostle Paul in 1 Corinthians 15 brings giving “thanks” to the fore front of our lives.
1 Corinthians 15:57 57But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
When you begin to really look at your life … “But thanks be to God … life is not futile, foolish or finished.”
At times we humans tend to think our lives are foolish. But consider this …though your life may not be all you want it to be … most of the time it is more life than others have.
If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep, you are richer than 75% of this world.
If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish someplace, you are among the top 8% of the world’s wealthy.
If you woke up this morning with more health than illness, you are more blessed than the million who will not survive this week
If you can attend church meetings without fear of harassment, arrest, torture, or death, you are more blessed than three billion in the world.
List 3 things each day you are thankful for, it will turn you life around