The Plank in Our Own Eye #RTTBROS #Nightlight

The Plank in Our Own Eye #RTTBROS #Nightlight

"And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?" — Matthew 7:3

You know, there's something I've been catching myself doing lately, and I bet you do it too. It's what the psychologists call the fundamental attribution error, but Jesus talked about it a couple thousand years before they gave it that fancy name.

Here's how it works: when I'm running late to church, well, I've got a whole list of reasons. The alarm didn't go off, one of the kids couldn't find their shoes, there was unexpected traffic, I had a rough week. I'm a complex person dealing with complex circumstances, right? But when you show up late? Well, that's because you're just not very organized. You don't manage your time well. You don't take commitments seriously.

See what I did there? I judge myself by my intentions and my circumstances, but I judge you by your actions. I give myself grace, but I give you a label.

The really convicting part is that Jesus addressed this head-on in the Sermon on the Mount. He painted this absurd picture of someone with a two-by-four sticking out of their eye trying to help someone else with a speck of sawdust in theirs. It would be funny if it wasn't so close to home.

Here's what I've learned, and I'm too soon old and too late smart on this: I don't know your story. I don't know what you're carrying. I don't know what kept you up last night or what phone call you got this morning. I don't know the burdens you're bearing that nobody else can see.

But God does. He knows all of it. And He looks at both of us with the same grace and patience.

Paul wrote in Romans 2:1, "Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest: for wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself; for thou that judgest doest the same things." Ouch. Every time I rush to judgment about you, I'm setting the standard by which I'll be judged.

The truth is, we're all doing the best we can with what we've got. We're all carrying more than anyone else can see. We're all complex people in complex circumstances, trying to navigate this broken world and honor God in the process.

So maybe today, when someone cuts you off in traffic or snaps at you in the hallway or shows up late or forgets that thing they promised, maybe we could pause. Maybe we could choose to see them the way we see ourselves, with complexity and grace. Better yet, maybe we could see them the way God sees them, with love and compassion and patience.

Because the measure we use for others, that's the measure that's going to be used for us. And I don't know about you, but I need all the grace I can get.

Let's pray: Father, forgive us for the way we so quickly judge others while making excuses for ourselves. Help us see people the way You see them, with compassion and understanding. Teach us to remove the beam from our own eye before we worry about the speck in someone else's. Give us Your heart for the people around us. In Jesus' name, Amen.

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