I wrote this to a believer who was struggling to understand God and what he is doing. Why some prayers are granted and others denied.
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The divine dance of intimacy.
We were created to be in a deep, dependant, intimate relationship with God. While it is true we were made in the image of God and have some of his transferable attributes we are so much less than him. As a one celled ameba is to us so we are to God. His ways are not our ways and his thoughts are not our thoughts. God is so totally "other" that we can't comprehend Him apart from his divine revelation. Even that revelation requires a new birth and the aide of the Holy Spirit to understand properly.
We look for ways of understanding God that can satisfy our need for explanations and understanding. We want a systematized way to relate with this "Divine Other". With humans we can set up some basic guidelines because we are at least similar enough to sense what is needed and what is expected in the relationships. These are all relationships of equals. Our relationship with God is singular. He is our creator (we really don't have a human parallel that we liken this relationship.) He is our Father (we at least have parents and we can make some inferences about what it means that he is our Father) he is our Master and on we could go listing types of relationships that describe this divine dance of intimacy.
He created us to be close and intimate with him which necessitated a free will and the ability to choose not to be close and intimate. This is where sin came in and damaged the original dance. The original dance was innocent and pure we flung ourselves into that arms of a God who delighted in our innocence. But then SIN...we fled from him and his presence we broke the intimacy and created a problem we were now unfit to be in his presence much less be intimate with Him.
But God had a plan, before there Was guilt there was grace, before there was sin there was a saviour. He was a lamb slain from before the foundation of the world. Before we ever got into our mess he was the mercy of God personified. He died after living a sinless life that we might live with Him Forever in a sinless innocent state with God forever.
It is described in a beautiful way in this song. "Lord Of The Dance"
"Lord of the Dance" is a hymn with words written by English songwriter Sydney Carter in 1963. It follows the idea of a traditional English carol, "Tomorrow Shall Be My Dancing Day" which tells the gospel story in the first person voice of Jesus of Nazareth with the device of portraying Jesus' life and mission as a dance.
"I danced in the morning when the world was begun,
And I danced in the moon and the stars and the sun,
And I came down from heaven and I danced on the earth:
At Bethlehem I had my birth.
Dance, then, wherever you may be,
I am the Lord of the dance, said he,
And I'll lead you all, wherever you may be,
And I'll lead you all in the dance, said he.
I danced for the scribe and the Pharisee,
But they would not dance and they wouldn't follow me;
I danced for the fishermen, for James and John;
They came with me and the dance went on:
Dance, then, wherever you may be,
I am the Lord of the dance, said he,
And I'll lead you all, wherever you may be,
And I'll lead you all in the dance, said he.
I danced on the Sabbath and I cured the lame:
The holy people said it was a shame.
They whipped and they stripped and they hung me on high,
And they left me there on a cross to die:
Dance, then, wherever you may be,
I am the Lord of the dance, said he,
And I'll lead you all, wherever you may be,
And I'll lead you all in the dance, said he.
I danced on a Friday when the sky turned black;
It's hard to dance with the devil on your back.
They buried my body and they thought I'd gone;
But I am the dance, and I still go on:
Dance, then, wherever you may be,
I am the Lord of the dance, said he,
And I'll lead you all, wherever you may be,
And I'll lead you all in the dance, said he.
They cut me down and I leapt up high;
I am the life that'll never, never die.
I'll live in you if you'll live in me:
I am the Lord of the dance, said he.
Dance, then, wherever you may be,
I am the Lord of the dance, said he,
And I'll lead you all, wherever you may be,
And I'll lead you all in the dance, said he.
Hear it here
https://youtu.be/YV15StV6TK0
Now we enter the Divine Dance of intimacy at the moment of new birth but we are hindered by a kind of paralysis that makes our part of the dance damaged. It is our old nature trying to assert itself, or maybe the siren song of this world system that steals us away from our rightful partner or even Satan intentionally trying to trip us up in the dance to make us look the fool before our creator and redeemer.
All I really know is for God to interact with fallen humanity it has to be on his terms as He is exercising sovereignty while maintaining our Free will to dance with Him or not. So there may be many unanswered questions, we may have no idea why he is doing what he is doing but I hold tight to a tremendous truth taught by Spurgeon "When you can't trace God's hand you can TRUST God's heart" there is so much I don't understand but I know I will trust and obey till I can do the divine Dance of intimacy in Heaven in a perfected form. Till them I am trying to live a lifestyle of acceptance with Joy.
Changing what I can and trusting God for the rest.